Current Events > CE, can I have your opinion on this scenario? (Long post) (Relationship shit)

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Kitt
06/12/19 6:53:40 AM
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So I have a friend. He and his ex had this no strings attached fuck buddies thing going on for about a year. This particular friend is roomed up with another batch of our friends. Recently, they let his ex/fuck buddy move in with them.
The ex have that "sex isn't a big deal" mindset and she's pretty open about hooking up with different people. So anyway, she's been casually fucking one of the other guys there and now the initial friend is upset about the whole thing and is moving out from the house, which is kind of a big deal for them financially and stuff.

The whole thing has been kind of a divisive topic of discussion. My roommate believes that what the ex did was 'scandalous' and 'pretty messed up' because she fucked some other dude under the same roof where she's been fucking her ex.
But I'm in the camp that believes, while that's not the classiest thing in the world, the fact of the matter is they're not together, therefore it's fair game. And we all know they're not together. We all know how open she is about sex. And it's clear that our friend wanted more out of this relationship with her than he was letting on.

So yeah, they're going through that whole bullshit. He's trying to find a new place to live, our friends at the house have to change some stuff out of his name. It's kind of a mess. I just hope he's still on good terms with everyone :/

But what's your take on this?
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pegusus123456
06/12/19 6:57:04 AM
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Nobody's really at fault tbh, but I'd put slightly more blame on the dude.
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Eat More Beef
06/12/19 7:10:31 AM
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Good idea for her to fuck the other house mate? Nope.

Did the ex guy have a right to be mad? Nope.

Is the ex guy being a weiner? Yep.
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DarthWendy
06/12/19 7:12:48 AM
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I don't have any take on this. I'm in the camp that believes that if the lad wants to move out because he doesn't like something, he's entirely entitled to do so, provided he does in an orderly fashion, contractually speaking in regards with the rent and all. The rest is irrelevant. Nobody is entitled to judge him on his reaction, it's a personal matter. Maybe if he had chosen to have better morally adjusted girlfriends, this wouldn't have happend, but that's on him, and all this is spilled milk under the bridge now, innit.
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Kitt
06/12/19 7:21:36 AM
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DarthWendy posted...
I don't have any take on this.

I'm in the camp that believes that if the lad wants to move out because he doesn't like something, he's entirely entitled to do so, provided he does in an orderly fashion, contractually speaking in regards with the rent and all.

Okay then.
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Kolibri X
06/12/19 7:30:02 AM
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Sounds like a bunch of chimps living together tbh. The 'sex isn't a big deal' type of person is always poison because they never consider others.
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Kitt
06/12/19 7:31:13 AM
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Kolibri X posted...
Sounds like a bunch of chimps living together tbh. The 'sex isn't a big deal' type of person is always poison because they never consider others.

I love them but...You're not too far off >_>
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jjp05c
06/12/19 8:09:36 AM
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Sounds like i wouldnt sit down anywhere in that apartment.
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Pus_N_Pecans
06/12/19 8:20:21 AM
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I agree with your take. It's fair game even it hurts the guy's feelings. If you can't handle the open aspects of a "friends with benefits" arrangement, you shouldn't be involved in one in the first place. That said, having casual sex with roommates sounds like a recipe for disaster any way you slice it.
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