Board 8 > So my relationship is over...

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pjbasis
03/25/21 2:11:42 PM
#51:


Corrik7 posted...
Idk, man. I am the kind of person who sees good in everyone. Will forgive anyone who has the volition to apologize when they screw up. I will never ever dump someone. I will make it work because I see good in them. Now I just feel like no one can be trusted.

I can see this about you, but just because you're like this doesn't mean you can hold other people to it. Sometimes the bad does outweigh the good. You need to work on understanding the faults of your partner better too. Trust isn't real if you're ignoring the warning signs to do it. I believe that true faith comes from a deep understanding about the shadows in others too.

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Corrik7
03/25/21 2:18:27 PM
#52:


pjbasis posted...
I can see this about you, but just because you're like this doesn't mean you can hold other people to it. Sometimes the bad does outweigh the good. You need to work on understanding the faults of your partner better too. Trust isn't real if you're ignoring the warning signs to do it. I believe that true faith comes from a deep understanding about the shadows in others too.
I'm not holding her to it. In fact, I am fully aware she is someone who looks for the bad in everything. She will nitpick anything until she finds something to complain about. She is always a victim and always wronged. Which, I mean, sometimes she probably is... but it makes it hard to sort what is a valid and not valid concern.

But, despite this, I kind of accepted that just is who she is and continued to pour everything into the relationship, from all angles. And, I feel like the moment someone got stimulus checks and a tax return they immediately bolted, after knowing the other person just poured all of theirs into the family completely.

I mean, this is trust shattering to me.

I think I told someone before a lot of the relationship has been difficult because it has always felt like I always had a knife at my back at all times. I became accustomed to that knife being there and never being driven in. So, while many will be like, saw that coming! Sure. I mean, I saw the smoke too. It was just something that just became accepted as normal at that point for whatever reasons made sense to her. Maybe it is what made her feel comfortable. I don't know. But, I never expected it to be really driven in either based on the past. So, it still hurts.

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pjbasis
03/25/21 3:28:14 PM
#53:


Of course it'll hurt. I don't think there was an easy solution for a long time. I guess I'm trying to say you have hope for a better relationship. Feeling like someones got a knife in your back is not how you need to feel.

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Punnyz
03/25/21 4:47:57 PM
#54:


Sorry this is happening

is this the same kid you spent all that time getting a SeXbox for?

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Corrik7
03/25/21 4:48:24 PM
#55:


Punnyz posted...
Sorry this is happening

is this the same kid you spent all that time getting a SeXbox for?
Yep

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foolm0r0n
03/25/21 9:51:36 PM
#56:


Corrik7 posted...
her house has increased almost 40% since she bought it already
Oh shit buy one ASAP, that's nothing compared to other places

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Corrik7
04/01/21 12:30:36 AM
#57:


In a holding pattern. Don't know what is going on. Moving doesn't seem to be an option though however due to financial reasons unfortunately.

Basically, she said yesterday she is seriously considering staying now (saying she intends to move May 1st). Then she followed that up by ignoring me the entire day today and not speaking to me at all.

So, yeah.

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MZero
04/01/21 6:40:27 AM
#58:


Dude get out of that relationship please

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Mr Lasastryke
04/01/21 8:42:14 AM
#59:


wait corrik isn't seriously considering getting back with her right

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Tom Bombadil
04/01/21 9:05:39 AM
#60:


I think this is the part where we all bust out the "hit it and quit it" memes but I would recommend skipping the first part

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colliding
04/01/21 10:32:09 AM
#61:


I mean he has a kid with her right? so it's not quite as simple as just leaving.

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ChaosTonyV4
04/01/21 10:49:28 AM
#62:


Its not simple, but that doesnt mean its not the right choice.

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Mr Lasastryke
04/01/21 11:03:52 AM
#63:


colliding posted...
I mean he has a kid with her right? so it's not quite as simple as just leaving.

it's not his kid. she already had him before they got into a relationship.

not saying "oh then it's super easy" but just to clarify.

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PrivateBiscuit1
04/01/21 11:03:54 AM
#64:


Corrik, you have to understand that this isn't healthy for you, her, or the kid in this situation. And that's what it comes down to.

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Inviso
04/01/21 11:06:11 AM
#65:


Mr Lasastryke posted...
it's not his kid. she already had him before they got into a relationship.

not saying "oh then it's super easy" but just to clarify.

I thought she had the first kid, but also a second kid with Corrik himself?

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Corrik7
04/01/21 11:26:50 AM
#66:


Inviso posted...
I thought she had the first kid, but also a second kid with Corrik himself?
Correct

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Mr Lasastryke
04/01/21 1:10:00 PM
#67:


i stand corrected. i always thought there was just one kid.

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Corrik7
04/09/21 2:32:51 AM
#68:


All over the place. One day she is leaving. Another she isn't. It's hard to keep up. I think she is leaving but who knows. Stressful as fuck.

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red13n
04/09/21 2:33:24 AM
#69:


Get out of this already.

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PrivateBiscuit1
04/09/21 2:40:11 AM
#70:


PrivateBiscuit1 posted...
Corrik, you have to understand that this isn't healthy for you, her, or the kid in this situation. And that's what it comes down to.


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MZero
04/09/21 2:52:51 AM
#71:


Corrik7 posted...
All over the place. One day she is leaving. Another she isn't. It's hard to keep up. I think she is leaving but who knows. Stressful as fuck.

Make the decision easier for her by kicking her out and ending this mess

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Corrik7
04/09/21 2:57:44 AM
#72:


Told her if she is leaving I want her out now so I can sell my house. Trying to dictate to me what I do living wise if she leaves. Also says she is unsure when I say I want her out now if she is leaving (which I assume is buying time til the 1st when it's convenient for her) but at other times seems convincing she is staying. Other times seems deadset she is leaving. I noticed she basically stopped cooking and buying food for the house. So, she is probably leaving and just tagging me along til convenient for her. She bought bins the other day.

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foolm0r0n
04/09/21 10:48:00 AM
#73:


Corrik7 posted...
I think she is leaving but who knows.
You know cuz you're leaving

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Llarian
04/09/21 12:41:13 PM
#74:


I don't know all the details, but she needs to adios.

Offer to help her fill the bins, anything that gets her out sooner. She can figure out a place to be until the 1st, be it family/friends/extended-stay hotel, and short term storage for any stuff. Especially if she's telling you what to do living wise, and there is no effort being made towards food, nope. That sounds like a loooong 3 weeks ahead. You need to finally do what's convenient for you, not her.

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Corrik7
04/09/21 1:43:12 PM
#75:


She isn't going to leave before the 1st and just threaten child support (which she will file for eventually anyways) if I were to do something.

I guess she is taking the car I just bought.

Sucks.

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KingButz
04/09/21 3:20:29 PM
#76:


Whose name is on the car
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Leafeon13N
04/09/21 3:45:38 PM
#77:


KingButz posted...
Whose name is on the car
Not corriks.
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Corrik7
04/09/21 3:52:23 PM
#78:


Car is in my name and has like 70 payments left.

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Bartzyx
04/09/21 4:14:24 PM
#79:


Then take back the car lol. It's yours

you're going to have to pay child support, dont let her screw you even more

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colliding
04/09/21 4:23:17 PM
#80:


Y'all tried counseling?

Like I know it sounds like the right thing to do is split but this does not sound like an easy situation to get out of without you losing a lot. At least if you give it the old "college try" maybe this will reflect positively on you in the future.

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PrivateBiscuit1
04/09/21 4:23:19 PM
#81:


Alternatively, you can let her have the car and keep paying the monthly payments on it and it will come out of your child support money. It works the same way as if you're making payments on a house she and the kids would be living at.

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Corrik7
04/10/21 5:37:19 PM
#82:


She said after rethinking she decided to move out again. So I kicked the hornet's nest and said I was filing for custody and shit is definitely done now

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DoomTheGyarados
04/10/21 5:43:03 PM
#83:


Show no mercy when it comes to your kids, corrik

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Corrik7
04/10/21 6:06:47 PM
#84:


DoomTheGyarados posted...
Show no mercy when it comes to your kids, corrik
I'm not gonna do it. Care too much. Just needed it to be finalized. Make her hate me and get it over with

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Leafeon13N
04/10/21 6:16:58 PM
#85:


Corrik7 posted...
Car is in my name and has like 70 payments left.
In all seriousness then you better delete the post you made in this topic about buying that SUV for her. Dont be the guy having GFAQs brought up in court.
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Corrik7
04/10/21 6:17:49 PM
#86:


Leafeon13N posted...
In all seriousness then you better delete the post you made in this topic about buying that SUV for her. Dont be the guy having GFAQs brought up in court.
Don't care and she doesn't know how to internet. Her kid is gonna be so sad when he loses his internet connection and his Xbox home account to mine.

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Leafeon13N
04/10/21 6:19:07 PM
#87:


Double check all your social media for dumb comments like that too.

Anything that could be used against you but could reasonably be deleted with no one noticing should be.
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Corrik7
04/10/21 6:19:31 PM
#88:


Leafeon13N posted...
Double check all your social media for dumb comments like that too.

Anything that could be used against you but could reasonably be deleted with no one noticing should be.
She alrdy has what she needs

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Leafeon13N
04/10/21 6:22:28 PM
#89:


Corrik7 posted...
She alrdy has what she needs
If she realizes how much money she could get by hiring a lawyer I'd be careful.

It is dangerous to assume people wont do the most monetarily beneficial thing.
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Corrik7
04/10/21 6:23:27 PM
#90:


Leafeon13N posted...
If she realizes how much money she could get by hiring a lawyer I'd be careful.

It is dangerous to assume people wont do the most monetarily beneficial thing.
She always was going to. The first time she got mad for any reason

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foolm0r0n
04/10/21 7:37:56 PM
#91:


Leafeon13N posted...
Double check all your social media for dumb comments like that too.

Anything that could be used against you but could reasonably be deleted with no one noticing should be.
He's fucked if that's the case

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Corrik7
04/10/21 10:08:51 PM
#92:


foolm0r0n posted...
He's fucked if that's the case
My social media is clean if that's what you are insinuating. But, no. I won't contest anything.

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ChainLTTP
04/10/21 10:12:13 PM
#93:


Tagging for when corrik gets extra hosed
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ChaosTonyV4
04/10/21 10:29:11 PM
#94:


Corrik7 posted...
My social media is clean if that's what you are insinuating. But, no. I won't contest anything.

Bro being nice wont make things better, if its contestable in any way, you should.

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Corrik7
04/11/21 9:56:42 AM
#95:


ChaosTonyV4 posted...
Bro being nice wont make things better, if its contestable in any way, you should.
Don't have it in me. Not that kinda person.

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Corrik7
04/12/21 2:04:20 PM
#96:


Won't move out but is locking herself in a room and not speaking at all to me. 0.o

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ChainLTTP
04/12/21 2:38:54 PM
#97:


Bro...get a hotel for a week so she can have some space for awhile. If anything, it should help her calm down and act more rationally.
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Corrik7
04/12/21 4:04:11 PM
#98:


She is now in my house and not talking to me at all. She basically is locked in upstairs. I am basically locked in my room. It's icy. = /

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Raka_Putra
04/12/21 4:24:04 PM
#99:


Next thing you know she'll change the locks when you're going out and you'll be homeless. Time to put your foot down.

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Peace___Frog
04/12/21 5:03:33 PM
#100:


It's your house, she should be the one staying at a hotel.

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