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Topic	I got shot down by 3 girls this week. AMA
fire_bolt 02/15/20 10:21:55 PM #16:	Rika_Furude posted... How do you gain the courage to even ask out a girl In fact, how do you gain the courage to physically relocate yourself to where women hang out like clubs or whatever Two parter! A) So its not about courage. Its about logic. It takes some work to get logic to beat emotion but with practice you can. Took me about 3 weeks to psyche up to this tbh. Anyway, simple answer is Nothing Bad Will Happen If You Look Stupid. No matter how cringey you might be, you can always just walk away after. Most of the time other adults will be happy to pretend nothing ever happened too. B) I work on a college campus so I'm there in the normal day to day of things. I have no idea how people meet women socially outside of school/work. I do go out drinking etc occasionally but never to hit on women. In fact I get hit ON way more than I hit on other people (mostly by thirsty gay dudes if we're being honest. Apparently I'm like the epitome of bear). That said, all three are girls I know from work and one of them could ruin me if she wanted (the first one). Eventually logic dictated it was worth the risk and eventually the rest of me agreed with logic. --- Please, call me Bolt <cite>fire_bolt posted [p:934436733] in I got shot... [t:78406864]...</cite> <quote>Rika_Furude posted...</cite> <quote>How do you gain the courage to even ask out a girl In fact, how do you gain the courage to physically relocate yourself to where women hang out like clubs or whatever </quote> Two parter! A) So its not about courage. Its about logic. It takes some work to get logic to beat emotion but with practice you can. Took me about 3 weeks to psyche up to this tbh. Anyway, simple answer is Nothing Bad Will Happen If You Look Stupid. No matter how cringey you might be, you can always just walk away after. Most of the time other adults will be happy to pretend nothing ever happened too. B) I work on a college campus so I'm there in the normal day to day of things. I have no idea how people meet women socially outside of school/work. I do go out drinking etc occasionally but never to hit on women. In fact I get hit ON way more than I hit on other people (mostly by thirsty gay dudes if we're being honest. Apparently I'm like the epitome of bear). That said, all three are girls I know from work and one of them could ruin me if she wanted (the first one). Eventually logic dictated it was worth the risk and eventually the rest of me agreed with logic. --- Please, call me Bolt</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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