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Punnyz posted...

but I think I hurt my ex when I was trying to talk to her. I brought up the times she did miss out on our plans, trying to say they were all fine, but I also used the word flake as a general term for missing out on something, but yea, thats not what that means and she took offense. [...] and I don't think I did it in a sensitive way either, I came off harsh when I wasn't trying to. I guess I'm not a soft guy. So imagine me trying to explain the explanation during this volcano explosion

I feel like this is the root of the problem. Even though you're fine with her being busy, you're not communicating that properly. So every time what she hears is "uggh Pun is upset with me AGAIN" and after enough of that, she's tired of it.

I don't really have any relationship advice (probably best, as you said, just treat it as a breakup) but if you care about the kid, you could offer to babysit. Not really as a way to get in her good graces or whatever, just staying in the kid's life.
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You put your RESOLVE HAT back on, which conveniently is the same hat as your NORMAL HAT.
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