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Topic	Welp this is the closest I've come to having a gf in 7yrs and I might pass on it
Ooooooranges 05/11/19 1:37:59 PM #34:	RoboLaserGandhi posted... SSJCAT posted... RoboLaserGandhi posted... SSJCAT posted... i mean fuck it id say at least go on an actual IRL date, its not like youre making any kind of commitment. just see if yall vibe Well the problem with that is: 1. I've never once in my life actually gone on an actual date. My relationships in high school were just going over to each other's houses and talking/banging. Literally nothing else. 2. Her implied date suggestions are just walking around town (we're in the fucking suburbs). I never do this so it's way out of my comfort zone for a first date, and frankly it's giving me a kind of trashy/loitery vibe all things considered. It's just a complete clash of personality in this regard. um just go out to eat or a bar or see a movie or something lol Nah see those also don't work for me. Like, even with the "right" people a one-on-one activity is either a one-sided interrogation if she's extraverted or extreme awkward silence if we're both introverted (which we are). It's just not in me to traditionally date. I'm completely incompatible with it. My ideas for "dates" would be Netflix and chill but the biggest barrier there is that we both live with our parents. I'm planning on moving out later this year so it sucks that this happened now and not later. So it's not in you to traditionally date, but a 'loss' if you try with this girl is that you lose availability for better opportunities? There are no opportunities with your mindset. You sound like someone that's absolutely unwilling to leave his comfort zone, and rationalizing things here to prevent having to do that. You haven't even had a real life conversation with this girl and you've already written her off. You gotta learn to get out there. Go on a date with her and expand your horizons a little at the very least. She may surprise you. --- http://images.tsn.ca/images/stories/2011/10/10/pujols_85507.jpg <cite>Ooooooranges posted [p:921760211] in Welp this ... [t:77708035]...</cite> <quote><cite>RoboLaserGandhi posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SSJCAT posted...</cite> <quote><cite>RoboLaserGandhi posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SSJCAT posted...</cite> <quote>i mean fuck it id say at least go on an actual IRL date, its not like youre making any kind of commitment. just see if yall vibe</quote> Well the problem with that is: 1. I've never once in my life actually gone on an actual date. My relationships in high school were just going over to each other's houses and talking/banging. Literally nothing else. 2. Her implied date suggestions are just walking around town (we're in the fucking suburbs). I never do this so it's way out of my comfort zone for a first date, and frankly it's giving me a kind of trashy/loitery vibe all things considered. It's just a complete clash of personality in this regard.</quote> um just go out to eat or a bar or see a movie or something lol</quote> Nah see those also don't work for me. Like, even with the "right" people a one-on-one activity is either a one-sided interrogation if she's extraverted or extreme awkward silence if we're both introverted (which we are). It's just not in me to traditionally date. I'm completely incompatible with it. My ideas for "dates" would be Netflix and chill but the biggest barrier there is that we both live with our parents. I'm planning on moving out later this year so it sucks that this happened now and not later.</quote> So it's not in you to traditionally date, but a 'loss' if you try with this girl is that you lose availability for better opportunities? There are no opportunities with your mindset. You sound like someone that's absolutely unwilling to leave his comfort zone, and rationalizing things here to prevent having to do that. You haven't even had a real life conversation with this girl and you've already written her off. You gotta learn to get out there. Go on a date with her and expand your horizons a little at the very least. She may surprise you. --- http://images.tsn.ca/images/stories/2011/10/10/pujols_85507.jpg</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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