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IfGodCouldDie posted...

Or you know, you could tell your friend that you aren't comfortable going to a place like that and if they decide to plan one there anyway you learn they don't respect you or your partner then you can decide if that's really the kind of person you can consider a friend.

I'm more concerned by the fact that my best friend is planning a night of festivities for me without letting me know anything I'm doing in advance. If my friend doesn't discuss with me beforehand that were going to a strip club then my friend doesn't know if he's causing me to cross some pretty significant boundaries in my relationship or not. Thankfully my wife doesn't give a shit about that sort of thing, so if my best friend had a surprise trip to a strip club planned it wouldn't be an issue for me, but I can easily see how it would be an issue for others.