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humans are inherently selfish

So are most species.

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Doctor criticizes women: "stop washing your vaginas with lemon"

But it ain't the best without that zest!

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You could always try going into heath care.

For the menial jobs, they're generally just looking for someone without a police record. At some locales even that's impressive to see...

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Johnny_Nutcase posted...

Is it bad i'm already thinking of divorce when i'm only engaged?

Obsessing over it? Yes. That's going to tank the relationship no matter what.

Considering it a possibility if you're not careful? NO. It's fucking wise. It's realistic by today's standards.

People who shame you for making that cautious consideration prior to getting married are worthless fools. They don't have your best interests in mind; they're pissed you're daring to question their comfortable status quo while not obediently contributing it. You're thinking differently and they don't like it. Simple as that. You don't have to say it, but in your mind feel free to tell them to fuck off with that manipulation (relatives included). Signing up for marriage should not ever be treated lightly, especially not for modern men in the west.

You can absolutely consider methods of self protection as a man (that examine your partner's integrity) and still manage to be mature enough to have a long successful marriage. Some of those precautions can actually be pretty reliable shit tests for hos who are just out to use you, not love you. A woman who's real and actually cares about you will (albeit grudgingly) understand, partly because she's been testing you at the same time. For a marriage, that's who you should be checking out: someone who can put up with your relationship having equal consideration and support. Don't waste your time with hypocrites who bitch about you taking a closer look at their character before a serious commitment like marriage. That just shows they're not really considering the potential impact(s) the changes could have on your life specifically. They're too busy thinking of the benefits for themselves. What a great candidate for your ring, right...?

If you meet someone who's made it clear they're feeling as committed and supportive of you as you want to be for them, that's great. I like hearing about that; I'm actually pro-marriage for couples doing it right and practice honest mutual consideration towards each other. To me that's a beautiful phenomena. Unfortunately, that's becoming a rarer and rarer experience for young couples in the US, hugely in part because of social double standards and archaic legal institutions actively sexist towards non-wealthy men. The top 10% of men can scandalously afford to dance around family court penalties. With enough status and wealth they can practically get away with anything. The grand majority of lower class men can not. Regular class men need to practice greater discretion when choosing who they wife up to avoid getting reamed by biased legal institutions that actively perpetuate harmful classism. All that typically takes is making a girlfriend's integrity a higher priority.

So it's not hateful, immature, or misogynistic for a young middle class man who's building himself up to take a moment and question whether or not he's ready for marriage with a potential partner yet. I applaud it. He's thinking with the head above his shoulders...the one that keeps him alive. Neglecting to do so is brainless and blindly idealistic. And I'm proud of a young man who stops for a moment and has the wit to run that self analysis before a decision that will hugely impact his life. That is real progress in action. That's a sign of a man worth marrying.

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Every time you fart an angel gets it's wings

Fat people and protein junkies both doing their part to uplift Heaven.

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Choco posted...

are you dating boomers?

No, I date dudes.

Modern gay guys tend to chip in on partner expenses regardless of "role".
Leeches tend to get dumped fast.

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Frosted_Midna posted...

Troll topic? But everyone knows Samus is a female.

That's ridiculous!

Next you'll tell us some loser named Link is the main character even though it's literally named "Legend of Zelda".

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Plans for mass weapons confiscation has very little chance of success in a nation like the USA.

Whenever a politician puts that on their ticket and says it's a priority in their campaign, it's generally all bluff to pander for free votes. Free votes from idealistic suckers...

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Funny thing is that scenario does happen and it's not uncommon for the person to further flip-flop their declared orientation multiple times. That's why critics consider it a "waiting game" after someone who originally identified as straight supposedly cries wolf about being gay/bi. There's a decent chance they're going to flip again later and suggest they were something besides straight the whole time...

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DrizztLink posted...

Remember when they nerfed his ass?

Dark times.

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BilalPowell posted...

The worst part about this article is reminding us he was in a terrible Fantastic Four movie.

Black Panther made up for it.

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Fat girls asking men for a serious healthy relationship

Nothing wrong with them shooting their shot.
As long as they don't cry foul when they miss a guy and don't get a reshot with him.

However, you might notice the women actually worth a damn are typically not the ones crying.

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Squall28 posted...

One of the biggest money drains

That's the point. You're typically paying for it all.

Have self respect. Contribute, but don't ever accept being a doormat.
Moderate your spending and watch who bounces when the $$$ train gets cut off.
Don't be the engine stuck towing someone else's demands...

When some ratchet throwback says "you're the man, you're supposed to provide ", remind her that "okay then you're the woman who's supposed to come up with something worth providing for ".

If she's not sending you sugar worth your time and $$$, she's a waste of it.

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Choco posted...

real people don't talk or act like this

Some do and the results are usually tragic when they're trying to play Cupid.
This situation has existed long before TV tropes, but formulaic media has contributed to it being seen as acceptable to do...

The situation is especially awkward for folk who are not the heterosexual majority. If it's not ideal for them to reveal their orientation at the time, they can be forced out into the open (both to peers and enemies). Plus they may have to deal with rejecting someone else's unrequited advance and potential drama that follows.

Another unfortunate trend is the likelihood of the wannabe matchmakers basically trying to get their single loser friend in the clique an unsuspecting dating partner so it's less awkward to socialize around them. That typically turns out bad for the new partner who's really just getting used like a utility of convenience...

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don worry b happi

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She looks like a cartoon.

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Minor red flag, but easily examined while she's in the bathroom.

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SNL dunking on politicians (especially the president) has been a decades long tradition. Former presidents went through it before Trump.

If the show should be busted for anything, it's the more-frequently-miss-than-hit skits they call "comedy"...

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Part of the reason people believe it true in this instance is because he's been legit busted for it before.

If it was a first-time allegation, sure, wait for the facts. However, part of Brown's negative rep is through his own admissions. That does not warrant a benefit of doubt anymore. If he ends up falsely accused while having confirmed rep of prior domestic abuse....that's on him now. He dug his own grave.

Although its not like a provocative yet wealthy music celeb is going to seriously roast for it anyway. Not when rabid fangirls still feed his status.

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Why is this only being presented as a preference men have?

There's plenty of cis women who will straight up tell you up front they are not interested in dating a trans partner either. As mentioned earlier in this topic: many cis lesbians vocally have that perspective.

This is just a longstanding trend I have noticed over the years. I support trans people having the same freedom to find consensual partners. However, that should come with the realization that those applicable partners are likely going to be limited when taking into account the rights of other people.

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Imagine how many times Shaun King has been asked this.

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Do you think telling a user to fuck off or telling him....

Uh some users prefer They, Them pronouns.
We also have users who are women.
It's 2021. Thank you!

Next time please be an equal opportunity insulter to avoid being discriminatory. Not doing so is literally being Hitler.

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lmao Dan's an obedient tool

if he's sticking around for someone riding trains all the time, he might as well lay on the tracks for her too

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fohstick posted...

absolutely unnecessary force. Lock them up

They could have legally shot the fuck out of her with video evidence on their side...

They were already showing restraint by not putting her violent stupid ass down.

Notice the guy didn't jump in.
Because he probably understood she crossed a line.

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Your reaction: Your pregnant wife confesses she wishes da baby isn't born LGBT

These days you should just focus on whether or not the kid is actually yours lmao.

#mandatoryDNAtests

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toyota posted...

why do thugs still go crazy over sneakers?

Anyone who does is proof their mama did raise a fool.

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Explosive device at gender reveal party sets off Albertan wildfire

Not the first time over-indulgent privileged people recklessly decimated a landscape with tacky party favors.

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Wii_Shaker posted...

Did the victim actively catfish the murderer?

In a sense, it's a possibility. If the victim identified as a woman and the suspect only agreed to meeting because he believed the victim was a biological woman...yeah, that is technically catfishing. IMO it should never warrant murder. However, it's a situation that is very well known for leading to extreme reactions, including violence. While that does not excuse the violent reactions, intentionally tip-toeing around full disclosure during sexual encounters has always been playing with fire...

The prior meeting supposedly only involved oral sex on the suspect. If the victim was able to pass convincingly enough as a woman up close that the suspect was unable to detect it was another man, oral sex could have been performed without suspicion or incident. It's entirely feasible that the suspect was convinced he was engaging in oral sex with someone he believed was a woman during the previous encounter and had a emotional meltdown when he found out that was not the case on their next meeting. It's not an unheard of scenario in communities with people who present differently than their biological sex.

Last time I checked, men who are seriously not interested in homosexual encounters and specifically only want cis-gender female partners typically get intensely upset after finding out they got "conned" into engaging with someone who doesn't qualify. Naturally finding out that they just received a sexual favor during what they later considered a deception will generally escalate this even further. Some men might even jump to the conclusion that they had been raped due to the presumed blurred lines of consent. That can easily become an emotional powder keg...

I'm a gay dude, so this "trap" controversy does not hit a personal note for me. There's usually 101 easily spotted red flags for determining whether or not a hook up is another cis gender homosexual male. The truth comes out quicker between gay men. And, frankly, a rudimentary blowjob for us is rarely worth a callback. But for a thirsty straight guy who's convinced he won the lottery after finding someone he thinks is a pretty woman/potential girlfriend who doesn't shy away from BJs...yeah, he might call "her" back if he's convinced she's the real deal. And this story sounds like another case of how that can turn horribly wrong.


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Yup. Being a malicious killer is not a gendered concept.

One thing that needs to be pointed out when addressing a female killer is to not automatically label her as mentally unhinged or "psycho" for committing a murder. Making that kneejerk presumption reinforces the errored stereotype that a woman will only commit a heinous act of violence if she's pushed to an emotional brink. It pushes the flawed idea that no woman is capable of malicious intent and evil initiatives just as much as male offenders; that she will only act out in extreme violence when she herself is somehow a victim as well.

There's plenty of women in criminal history that have committed brutal murders with evil intent that easily debunks that narrative. Some of which were protected privileged women living lives free of critical abuse who just one day decided they wanted to kill someone. And said killers have taken the lives of men, children, and other women.

If you would judge a man as monstrous and unworthy of sympathy for committing a vicious murder towards a partner, it's important to apply equal judgement towards a woman who commits the same bloodthirsty act. The possibility of the boyfriend in this story cheating on the girlfriend should not excuse her lethal reaction any more than for an angry male lover killing a suspicious girlfriend. She committed a murder out of rage. The sentencing for that should not be a gendered outcome.

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are women that cosplay as sexy characters hurting feminism?

No. Puritanism criticizing women for dressing how they want would be against feminism.

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Did you ever have a lucky rabbit's foot keychain?

No.

What for? It was clearly not lucky for the rabbit...

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Would you date a woman dat wears kitty ears in public?

That's actually a legit red flag.

but you do you...

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Her game makes her a unicorn among worthless nags.

Even though the line is corny, she had the guts to do the unthinkable among western women: make the first move instead of declaring it another one of men's exclusive jobs.

props to her courage


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Logan Paul lassoing women in the streets, not letting go unless they kiss him.

Well there's a lawsuit or two...

He must have thought it was still the 1980s.

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I thought rich dudes can get with a lot of girls?

Wealthy men can attract plenty of women, primarily because wealth and status are attractive traits in men to many women.

While rich men looking for worthwhile commitment may still face hurdles finding a girlfriend, ambitious rich men who never bother with commitment can reel in hordes of thirsty women like fish. If hooking up and using partners like utilities to facilitate it are all the guy wants, being rich will generally have him set with substantially less consequences than middle class men.

Why?

Ask the hundreds of women who constantly throw themselves at those men despite knowing this.

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How can person drop pants sizes without losing weight?

Lift.

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He's fine. He just looks British now.

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Count_Babula posted...

is this guy too old to be dating this girl?

If she's an adult, bothering to seriously ask would be invalidating her right to choose partners.

Only overactive puritans "show concern" towards the age gap between an adult woman over 21 and her older partners. It doesn't just demonize the men involved; it also infantilizes the woman despite being an independent adult. It implies she's not mentally mature enough to make her own decisions and lives as a perpetual victim. In a sense it's penalizing her for looking youthful.

If that's not what you're doing, good.

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Did she think he was doing something sexual?

Otherwise, she just assaulted him over nothing and it really shows how abusive she is.
No one should waste their time with her...

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Who doesn't respect women the most?

women

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Are guys really attracted to the anus?

Actually yes I am. And fine looking gentlemen by the name of Hughe Jass.

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registered nurse

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MedeaLysistrata posted...

i actually saw this question on okcupid

Why didn't you ask them to explain it then?

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Olivia2 posted...

If you tell someone you're bi and they say "whatever makes you happy", isn't that a pretty lack luster thing to say as a response?

I wouldn't care. There's so much worse responses other people can give to someone revealing their non-hetero orientation.

Be grateful they said anything remotely positive.
That still actually speaks well of them despite not being the ideal.

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Just block him. All his posts are clickbait spam.

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