does it count as voluntary if the whole friend group wants to watch a movie and you don't want to be the dick who says "absolutely not"?
For video games, pretty much never. I don't have enough time to make it through the stuff I do want to play as is
no, that specifically doesn't count. having to settle for a movie on date night that your partner wants to watch is similar. i'm talking about like 100% your choice. you might not have access to what you want to watch specifically but you can definitely choose just not to watch/listen/play and not do anythingin this case basically never