Have played Control and Three Houses.
Control was pretty bad. Suffers in the way that most third person shooters do, so I guess it might be acceptable if you love that genre. Just moving around and exploring the world kinda sucks. The story and lore aren't that great either (played Outer Wilds right after this, which blows Control out of the water in this respect).
Three Houses is too long, but other than that it's a top tier Fire Emblem. Played the shit out of it and enjoyed almost every minute.
All the stars in the sky are waiting for you.