I don't personally like one or the other. I just think people like that, who believe the joy of creating and nurturing the next generation takes a backseat to having an empty house full of fleeting nothings, are people with whom I do not wish to associate. Humanity is a team sport and it's kind of like buying out of the game so you can have what is essentially a life that contributes nothing to our future as a species.
"Reading would be your friend." ~Dave Meltzer