I say this with love, but cant people bring up stuff on this board without people going to such a dark place?
I dont want my partner farting in front of me, that does not make me a terrible person.
I also just took care of my dad in hospice, I can be vulgar about what that just entailed as well. I did all that fun shit as well. We dont have to trauma dump to prove our points here. Relationship boundaries about hygiene/conduct/etc are separate issues.
It reminds me of the other day when Marvel was trying to talk about his issue with dating, and everyone got al pissy about their failures and he didnt even want to talk about his shit anymore because everyone got so weird. What the fuck is actually going on?