Super_Slash posted...
So I told her that I don't seem to remember agreeing to re opening the relationship, and that last time we talked about it, we agreed to keep it closed for now. She admitted she chose to open it herself when she signed up for FB Dating. I confronted her and well, she knows I'm hurt.
Am I an idiot for thinking this feels like a huge breach of trust? I'm really upset about this and don't know what to do. This almost feels like cheating. Is it just me?
Tldr: my memory sucks but I know the last talk we had about being open vs closed, we agreed to keep it closed for the time being. She admits to reopening the relationship without talking to me and I'm really upset about it.
It is a huge breach of trust and she is cheating (or intending to cheat).
Super_Slash posted...
If we break up, my housing situation becomes a thousand times worse than it already is.
That is sadly very common. You could look to end the relationship but continue as housemates.