I'm more interested in the dom issue more than the poly stuff
Is the only viable way for your relationship to survive if you're a dom in the bedroom?
Can't you mix it up and be submissive? Or do away with the whole concept of dom/submissive for a little bit and simplify the sex a bit?
I get that she probably enjoys being submissive herself but to me it all seems a bit reductive to just be like "she needs dom. I must be dom" especially if you're not comfortable with it
Started from the bottom now we here