is it normal to avoid homework because of relationship guilt

I think the answer is no

But anyway I need to get homework done tonight but I know if I'm on my computer my wife will get pissed off (she is a "shoot first and second, maybe ask later" type of person). If I don't finish it by tomorrow evening then it'll be late and she'll be pissed. But if I try to do it tomorrow period she'll be pissed.

So I guess the moral of the story is I'm fucked no matter what and apparently my life has become a literal captain pineapple topic how the fuck do I get out