is it normal to avoid homework because of relationship guilt

I think the answer is no

But anyway I need to get homework done tonight but I know if I'm on my computer my wife will get pissed off (she is a "shoot first and second, maybe ask later" type of person). If I don't finish it by tomorrow evening then it'll be late and she'll be pissed. But if I try to do it tomorrow period she'll be pissed.

So I guess the moral of the story is I'm fucked no matter what and apparently my life has become a literal captain pineapple topic how the fuck do I get out

Um maybe get a divorce

can't you be preemptive about it, and be like, "if you need me, I'll be doing my homework", or something like that?

Yeah but then I lose regular contact with my kid and she's pretty much the one thing that keeps me going right now.

Hexenherz posted...

Yeah but then I lose regular contact with my kid and she's pretty much the one thing that keeps me going right now.

How do you lose regular contact with your kid by telling your wife you need to be studying, using your computer?

Sounds like you guys don't communicate well. It's a super easy fix but most couples will do everything but talk to eachother for whatever reason.

darkmaian23 posted...

How do you lose regular contact with your kid by telling your wife you need to be studying, using your computer?

That was in response to the divorce comment.

Smashingpmkns posted...

Sounds like you guys don't communicate well. It's a super easy fix but most couples will do everything but talk to eachother for whatever reason.

Buddy... She has no emotional regulation so say i didn't put the grocery bags away when I came home (I unloaded the items in their appropriate places but the bags were still out because it takes half a minute to put them away I figured I'd just wait until after dinner. That explodes into every wrongdoing I've committed over our whole relationship. Everytime.