https://youtu.be/2z7tI66YKQA?si=0TywxdWY90R4DSvB&t=1917
basic tl;dr
-men learn through trial and error what works and what doesn't (to get laid) and what they learn is that having things to give is more important than romance
-to get things to give takes years of work and effort which breeds entitlement
-romance exists to help level the playing field kinda for less successful men
-women who are beautiful usually get what they want and are constantly lied to because lies are found to work more by men, but when told no they can't emotionally handle it because most people (men and less attractive women) learned how to handle it but they didn't
-unrelated to both above he talks about how relationships fail cause of the unclogged toilet principle
-people get together in a relationship to solve a problem in a way and you don't need a plumber anymore when toilet is unclogged