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So did everyone have a merry little Chris t mas? Did y'all m a ke the yuletide g ay?

Aww that sounds lovely. Ya know, having a husband. T_T

Oh and I also received a tortilla blanket from my uncle. After that, I had to go hide the one I had previously received as a gift so he wouldn't see it lol.

So did everyone have a merry little Chris t mas? Did y'all m a ke the yuletide g ay?

Lemon party?

Lemon party?

What?

I posted a pic of myself and my partner of 28 years, wishing everyone happy holidays. I guess because we're both mature men, their mind went to "lemon party".
I decided to delete the pic because I didn't appreciate the reference, and didn't want to derail your topic.

Oh, thats messed up! Sorry that happened honestly, I would hope this would be a positive topic and not one where we drag each other down. For the record Id love to find a guy to settle down with for 28+ years, fuck the haters.

I posted a pic of myself and my partner of 28 years, wishing everyone happy holidays. I guess because we're both mature men, their mind went to "lemon party".
I decided to delete the pic because I didn't appreciate the reference, and didn't want to derail your topic.

i got nothing for christmas and got dumped

i got nothing for christmas and got dumped

quit smoking

So did everyone have a merry little Chris t mas? Did y'all m a ke the yuletide g ay?

Im doing well on picking the exercise back up, but I bought more cigarettes today FML. Its so stupid.

Another thing Im working on this year is being more choosy about hookups. No more discreet meet ups, and no more married men or closet cases. I dont really want a relationship or anything, but sneaking around with some of my regular partners has gotten old. Idk why, the intimacy is nice and NSA is good for me right now, but having to be so secretive has kind of killed some of the charm for me lately.

Happy new year everyone. Any good resolutions? I think mine is to quit smoking and start working out more. I lost close to 100 pounds last year, so its time to finish what I started.

Any of y'all played Souldiers? I was really enamored with it for its beautiful pixel art when it was announced, but then when it came out a few years ago, the reviews and reception were... not great. I finally said screw it the other night and bought it anyway and have been enjoying it. It's pretty charming if you can get over the loading times and occasional crashing.

Does anyone else feel increasingly only wanting to hang out with other gay guys? Im not slay the house down girlies but also tend to feel out of place around straight guys.

What kinda game is it?

Does anyone else feel increasingly only wanting to hang out with other gay guys? Im not slay the house down girlies but also tend to feel out of place around straight guys.

I have an old friend en route to my place. Pretty excited tbh. Its been a hot minute.

Spicy!

Honestly, I wish I knew how to meet gay people better besides like the apps where I just hook up with people. I made a really great friend on Grindr, we half ass fell in love I think, and he moved to Pennsylvania for a job and I havent met anyone interesting since. It doesnt help that Im busy raising my son and taking my dad to doctor appointments because he has cancer. One of these days Ill have time to meet people.

I tried it, and maybe its because I live in Mid Missouri but all I found so far was web seminars and lesbian speed dating


I will reinstall later and take a deeper dive

I tried it, and maybe its because I live in Mid Missouri but all I found so far was web seminars and lesbian speed dating

because Im in love with my friend who is a whole 12 hours away and we barely talk anymore and a few other lame excuses.

That's... hmm....

Please share. I live in closeted Missouri and very rarely get good dating advice or even have the chance to talk openly about anything.

For context me and my friend met on a dating site, actually got to know each other before we started doing physical stuff and got really close. We never put strings on it because he is a traveling nurse and is all about the money he makes from his job. He moved onto another contract a few states away and it was hard for both of us, but I think we both have some regrets. We talked last night and he was checking in on me because I got a lot going on right now, we talked for hours like we always do laughing and flirting and shit but he drops really non-subtle hints about how he is lonely and wishes that he had someone to come home to, and how he wishes he didnt wake up alone, and how hed like to have someone that would come driving up to him every once in a while for visits

Which is frustrating I have a 14 year old son and my dad is very sick, I am extremely tied down. Im at the end of my divorce and my wife was abusive as shit so my son doesnt go over there I cant just pack up and have a romantic weekend at my leisure. I feel like next time we talk I should start going on about how I wish I had someone that cared more about a relationship than money, and could settle down and shit. I struggle with keeping my mouth in check honestly, because Im kind of outspoken.

Hey guys I want to get your opinions on dating a man who is in the closet to his family and friends.

I'm out to my family and friends and have been dating a guy for the past 6 months who is closeted. He shows way more PDA than I'm use to so it makes me feel like he's making efforts but he still hasn't told anyone about me and its beginning to make me feel like its a relationship that's going to go nowhere.

Also, is he aware of your current obligations? If he is and he's intentionally trying to guilt you into going to see him, that's a bit of a red flag. The only way to know for sure though, is communication.