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How unusual is this?
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Are you asking out CE
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I would say pretty unusual, but I won't assign a value judgment to it. That's for you to do.
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SSJGrimReaper posted...
Are you asking out CE
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Pics first
On this board it oddly seems not all that rare.
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good news!! Its Saturday night.. why dont you take a shower, pull out a stack of $20s and head to your closest downtown city.
Now or never.
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Any reason?
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That seems extremely unusual
Confirmed unbiased
What do you feel its your issue, TC?
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Strange in the wider population, but for CE it's not that out of the ordinary.
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I try not to let anyone I know find out about this lol
GateOfDoom posted...
I try not to let anyone I know find out about this lol
but are you happy? that is the best question
"That won't work Boss, hide the target in a place they're unlikely to be found"---GZ
Smallville posted...
but are you happy? that is the best question
Absoulately not
GateOfDoom posted...
Absoulately not
do you work though? work is a good place to meet women...etc...., online dating?
"That won't work Boss, hide the target in a place they're unlikely to be found"---GZ
ya it usually easier to just invite females back to your luxury condo to show them your watch collection than it is to pay for their meals.
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Do you have friends? Are you social? I have found that the vast majority of guys who have never been on a date aren't social. Going out, being social, having a friend circle, and doing activities will lead to dates for the vast majority of people.
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ClayGuida posted...
Any reason?
Getting C's and D's, saying thanks and please.
You broke the golden rule, you're staying after school.
ClayGuida posted...
Any reason?
^
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Pretty damn unusual. If you're not happy with it you should probably change it.
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splodeymissile posted...
Pretty damn unusual. If you're not happy with it you should probably change it.
I'm sure he's never thought of that, why did nobody tell him before
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Revnir posted...
Back in the day your situation was a bit of a red flag but these days it's much more common, to the point where I'd even say it doesn't even make you stand out anymore.

I imagine it was always common. People just didn't tell anyone before becoming anonymous on the internet.
This is where cool people write stuff.
If the majority of people on My 600-Lb Life can successfully get married despite almost never leaving the comfort of their own home for most of their adult life then you have nothing to worry about.
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B18Champ posted...
If the majority of people on My 600-Lb Life can successfully get married despite almost never leaving the comfort of their own home for most of their adult life then you have nothing to worry about.
I imagine most of those people started out normal weight and were social and had generally normal lives, got married first, then became 600+ lbs. So no it's not the same.
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DarthAragorn posted...
I'm sure he's never thought of that, why did nobody tell him before
Thinking about something is quite a different beast from actually bothering to do it
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B18Champ posted...
If the majority of people on My 600-Lb Life can successfully get married despite almost never leaving the comfort of their own home for most of their adult life then you have nothing to worry about.

They're probably fulfilling a rare kink for those partners, though.
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Find a local men's group TC.
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coyot posted...
I only played mgs4. Metal Gear Awesome portrayed this moment. I never knew the quote was real.
lmao
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TuxedoCyan posted...
I imagine most of those people started out normal weight and were social and had generally normal lives, got married first, then became 600+ lbs. So no it's not the same.

Nah, man. A lot of the people on the show experience some sort of trauma early in life and turn to food as an escape shortly after. They're huge practically their entire lives.
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totalnerdken posted...
While I'm sure people who didn't date at all were a thing in the past, I'm certain it's more of a thing now.
https://tinyurl.com/4y84f2fu

Sorry for the IG link, but it's the first thing I thought of wrt people a long time ago and not wanting social interaction lol. It's pretty funny and interesting.
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Captain_Qwark posted...
How many women have you asked out?

If it's less than like 50 you really just haven't tried hard enough

Never realized how depressing that sounds. To just brace for that much rejection.
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Captain_Qwark posted...
How many women have you asked out?

If it's less than like 50 you really just haven't tried hard enough
I don't think I have even asked 50 women out. Eh, maybe close. Probably asked out like 45 and had like 40 accepts. But I don't just randomly ask women out.
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Captain_Qwark posted...
I mean with dating apps you can ask at least a few women out per month. I live in bum fuck nowhere, am ugly and had terrible quality pictures and still manged like 3 matches a month.

Just gotta be genuine and put effort in.

Man, I'm glad I was a young man before dating apps got big.
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GateOfDoom posted...
How unusual is this?

Very unusual.
34 and the same. Im fine on my own. I think Im probably aromantic.
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josifrees posted...
Be thankful. Not worth it
Well, that's not true
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I don't get the oddity here.

All it takes to never go on a date:

- not being asked out on a date.

- not knowing how to identify anyone interested in dating you or how to actually ask them out in a date.

It's very simple. The combo of not physically standing out and lacking social logistics just works like that.

Captain_Qwark posted...
I mean with dating apps you can ask at least a few women out per month. I live in bum fuck nowhere, am ugly and had terrible quality pictures and still manged like 3 matches a month.

Dating apps are hit or miss, some people really don't get matches.
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Diceheist posted...
Dating apps are hit or miss, some people really don't get matches.
can confirm
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Captain_Qwark posted...
Trust me I know it's not fair. Some dudes will get more matches in a week than you'll get in a year but no matter how ugly you are it's just a numbers game. Unless you're a 2 shooting for an 8 you'll find women on there who will match with you.

"Just doesn't work for some people" is a cope. Lower your standards to be realistic, swipe like 100 more times and use the better apps (I found hinge and bumble to be way more useful than tinder ever was)
Also, make better profiles. Focus on pics doing activities or being social. Candid is better if you can get friends to just take pics while doing stuff. No selfies unless truly hot. The write-up is important too, but if you can get across your "brand" in pics, then do it. Looks are less important to many women than someone who looks kind, fun, and interesting.

If the problem is you say you aren't kind, fun or interesting (or social for that matter), then what you need to actually work on is obvious.
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Diceheist posted...
I don't get the oddity here.

All it takes to never go on a date:

- not being asked out on a date.

- not knowing how to identify anyone interested in dating you or how to actually ask them out in a date.

It's very simple. The combo of not physically standing out and lacking social logistics just works like that.

For me, I was able to identify girls that showed interest in me back in my school days, but I was too afraid to ask them out fearing either being rejected or being accepted and then having to be in a relationship.

When I was 18, I finally got the guts to ask a girl out to lunch and she said yes without hesitation. I was confident because she had been showing obvious signs she liked me for a few months prior and I kind of liked her and she was very polite and really shy which helped me make my decision. Even after having lunch with her, I didn't ask her out on any dates or to be my gf or anything even though I knew for certain she liked me and she would have said yes. I probably let her down by not asking her out.

I was just not ready to grow up back then. I'm still not ready now.

I will admit that short lunch I had with her, was probably the most confidence I've ever felt in my life about myself, which also scared me.
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