Growing up, did you have a good relationship with your father?

My parents were teenagers when I was born.

I became shy around my dad when I was a young child because of his parenting style at the time. It traumatized me tbh. So I never opened up to him and never became close.

He was a rampant cheater too and I didn't truly realize this till I was in my late teens. My mom told me everything. This made me recall the time my dad took me along on one of his dates with another woman. I was prob like 4-5 years old lol. Explains why my mom freaked tf out when I told her about our day.

So i don't have the greatest respect for him tbh... but he never abandoned any of us so he isn't the worst that's for sure. I actually do still love him. My younger sister and one of my younger brothers have a far better relationship with him since my Dad became a better father and husband with age. My parents never divorced