Is it disrespectful to choose not to divulge your own pronouns?

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No; but you do lose the right to be offended at people for getting them wrong if you're refusing to disclose what the right ones are. No matter how obvious you feel it should be. It's also going to come across as quite petty if you're specifically asked and refuse to answer.
Do, or do not. There is no Trumble.