I realised something about me emotionally. is this normal?

I am incapable of holding grudges. I get mad at someone and then Ill forgive them or at the very least act normal with them after 6 hours or something, is this normal?
a guy I knew insulted me and bare faced lied super inconsiderately and I seen him again and acted casual and didnt bring up anything and now Idgaf I see someone on twitter say about having enemies and all my enemies are in the past I guess I have had really toxic things happen but I dont call them my enemies I just kinda ignore what they said in the past and act fine with them and i stop being mad at them after time heals and passes. Is this what i should be doing?

I hyper focus on the words and how their headspace coulda been and Im like maybe they had a bad day? (They just wanted to be mean but I try to justify it to myself)

I hope you don't do that for every single thing.

Like would you still act normal towards someone if they hurt a loved one, of if you were cheated on? Something along those lines... There's gotta be limit to this or you're going to be taken advantaged of.

MrFingers07 posted...

I hope you don't do that for every single thing.

Like would you still act normal towards someone if they hurt a loved one, of if you were cheated on? Something along those lines... There's gotta be limit to this or you're going to be taken advantaged of.

MrFingers07 posted...

I hope you don't do that for every single thing.

Like would you still act normal towards someone if they hurt a loved one, of if you were cheated on? Something along those lines... There's gotta be limit to this or you're going to be taken advantaged of.

Oh I was talking mainly insults verbally not physical. Trust me if someone was gonna hurt anyone physically things would be way different

Nah that's just called being secure in yourself

Oh in the don't think it's that weird, I wouldn't say it's "normal" though but it's not a bad way to think imo.

But I would be cautious towards people who are repeat offenders of verbal abuse.

MrFingers07 posted...

Oh in the don't think it's that weird, I wouldn't say it's "normal" though but it's not a bad way to think imo.

But I would be cautious towards people who are repeat offenders of verbal abuse.

Im a bit weird with verbal arguments and rudeness. I dont really understand myself but I am so inconsistent with what upsets me verbally it is kind of weird. I cant think of much examples atm but I remember someone called me the slur that begins with r (mental one uncalled for af but I admit I was in the wrong cos I didnt think of outside situations that happened just before it i did get an apology) and I was more upset with being called untalented and useless. Then Ill get called the same thing but it doesnt bother me unless the emotion put into saying it is a particular way.

I am sleep deprived and on further review, I read OP wrong, that's kinda leaving you open for further consistent abuse

Guide posted...

I am sleep deprived and on further review, I read OP wrong, that's kinda leaving you open for further consistent abuse

Ah I do know that but I truly just dont feel hate for a while I just get over it too quick

tbh it probably isnt, but I'm the same way but maybe even more so. I have a hard time staying mad about anything for more than a couple hours and sometimes even a couole minutes. Something would have to be continually happening and refreshing my annoyance to even stick.

absolutebuffoon posted...

tbh it probably isnt, but I'm the same way but maybe even more so. I have a hard time staying mad about anything for more than a couple hours and sometimes even a couole minutes. Something would have to be continually happening and refreshing my annoyance to even stick.

Exactly I'm the same!

I'm the same way honestly.