Zonbei posted...
Relationships are not therapy. Women are not your therapists.
I don't want a relationship to use as therapy. I want to be happy, and I feel that if I can find some form of success that my line of thinking would naturally shift to match the situation.
Zonbei posted...
Being emotionally distant is the problem. That actually does mean people wont want to get to know you, and thats reasonable.
And they can measure how distant I am, and judge me as unworthy how? By never taking the time to talk with me? By ignoring my existence until they need something?
I'm fully aware that me being so closed off could be a big problem in a situation where someone did want to be close. I mean, they'd just have to give me some time, but I do see where someone might mind. But I don't see how it matters much when there's no one.