Arcanine2009 posted...
Yeah that's a bit of a red flag to not have a supportive partner. How often is she like this? Can you elaborate?
Basically any time I try to improve myself or make any major decisions like in the OP. I've always been able to provide and pull my weight when between jobs so it's not like she's pissed that she's supporting us financially because that's not the case. But basically anything I do she makes me feel stupid for doing it: bought a new car so o don't have to borrow hers while I'm working on my old one, she hated it. Everytime I want to do a project for the house she's against it (building a deck, renovating a room etc) because "can you do that?". Got a new puppy after my old dog passed and she was totally against it ("my dog died and I have nothing thatloves me unconditionally and I need someone to sleep and cuddle with". Irony being when her dog passed and she got a new one I was supportive).
Idk its just a lot of little things adding uo