Organized religion has been a very positive force in my life, and I have seen it used for incredible good. My wife was a hospice chaplain for years, and helped scores of people at the most vulnerable time in their life. I admire her greatly.
However, I dont blame people from turning away from organized religion in America in 2023. The organized religion with the biggest platform is far right evangelicals. They preach hate. They preach exclusion of others who are not like you. They preach denying women medical care in the name of the unborn, and then support politicians who do nothing to help people once they are born. Who wants to be part of anything like that?
Our congregation is full of people as liberal as they come, and are a group of the nicest and most inclusive folks I have ever met. I wish people who were interested in exploring faith had that and could see what I see. But hateful far right folks dominate the religious conversation in this country. Who wouldnt be turned off by what they are doing?
An opinion does not turn into a fact simply because the person holding it feels strongly about it.