Will you ever have kids one day?

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Damn_Underscore
11/06/2024
07:43 PM
#1
I don't know is not an option, you have to lean in one direction
try to take the best of me go away
You
Nade_Duck
11/06/2024
07:44 PM
#2
go away i'm batin'
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BADoglick
11/06/2024
07:59 PM
#3
No

Neither my wife nor I want them
BADoglick to the Max!
rexcrk
11/06/2024
08:04 PM
#4


Honestly probably not. And thats not a put down like Im not good enough or anything but Im a very pragmatic person. Im in my late 30s and I have the dating experience of a middle schooler lol. Im not so ignorant that Im not unaware of how absolutely unappealing that is I genuinely cannot even imagine that thered be a woman out there whod have the patience to put up with my lack of experience.

Then theres the whole thing with not making enough money. I aint bringing kids into the world if I cant give them a good life. And Im too much of a dummy to think of what would be a good career for me that would give me a lot of money and benefits that I also wouldnt hate.

So put those two factors together and that equals no kids. I definitely couldve seen it happening if I had found love at a younger age and / or at least gotten my act together and gotten on a good career path. But with the hand I was dealt? \_()_/
You know what I blame this on the breakdown of? Society.
ParanoidObsessive
11/06/2024
08:37 PM
#5
Probably not. Kids these days have gotten really smart about getting into the back of the van with the guy offering them Pokemon cards.

Maybe I just need new bait.
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Zareth
11/06/2024
08:42 PM
#6
Hell no. I don't hate kids enough to bring them into this shithole.
What would Bligh do?
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Muscles
11/07/2024
12:06 AM
#8
I've come to terms with the fact that I'll never find someone but I wouldn't want to be a parent even if I could find someone.
Muscles
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fishy071
11/07/2024
12:07 AM
#9
No
"You don't need a reason to help people." -Zidane Tribal of Final Fantasy IX
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VioletZer0
11/07/2024
02:24 AM
#11
I am trans so no.

I am not opposed to raising kids but I think that door is closed.
Muscles
11/07/2024
02:33 AM
#12
coyot posted...
Lower your expectations. And just make friends by exploring your states comedy scene, book stores, music at parks, exercise/yoga clubs, co-ed sports.

Dates develop emotional connection, which you might not want quickly. Its trendy to match fast. Its not a sign of insecurity to doubt. Nothing is forever is a great, mature mentality, which makes breaking up easier!
I don't know why you think I have any expectations
Muscles
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Sashanan
11/07/2024
03:38 AM
#13
Unlikely, but I guess I can't know what the future holds until there.
A gentleman will walk, but never run
SunWuKung420
11/07/2024
05:21 AM
#14
I already have an awesome son.
"I don't question our existence, I just question our modern needs" Pearl Jam - Garden
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captpackrat
11/07/2024
06:53 AM
#15
Just the hooved variety.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/2/2109d3f5.jpg
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OneEyedShinobi
11/07/2024
07:32 AM
#16
No. I don't really like kids. Plus incapable in raising kids due to anxiety and stress.

Plus I am happy being single. It's a trust issue.

mMy cats are my kids. Here is one. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/3/341e7421.jpg
They/Them not "he". Ace/Non-Binary. Ace the Space Ninja from Luminous Avenger iX2, Times I been misgendered: 42
Not a male in rl.
DiScOrDtHeLuNaTiC
11/07/2024
08:07 AM
#17
No. I don't have the patience or temperment to be a parent.
The world may be going to Hell, but I am personally awash with convenience.
adjl
11/07/2024
10:32 AM
#18
We're open to the idea, but we're not going to be in a position to do so comfortably any time soon, and it's not enough of a priority that we want to try tightening our belts to make it happen.
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fettster777
11/07/2024
03:25 PM
#21
I'd have to either adopt or cheat on my wife so, no I won't have them.
ParanoidObsessive
11/07/2024
04:41 PM
#22
fettster777 posted...
I'd have to either adopt or cheat on my wife so, no I won't have them.

What if your wife goes full Old Testament and lets you have sex with her handmaiden to have a surrogate?

If it's good enough for God's chosen, who are you to say no?
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Muscles
11/07/2024
10:10 PM
#23
coyot posted...
I said lower and you went to straight zero. Very literal lol
It has been 0 for a few years lol
Muscles
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TheFalseDeity
11/07/2024
10:50 PM
#24
Hopefully not. But its something id be willing to do if she really wanted.
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Glob
11/08/2024
12:53 AM
#25
Its the plan, but who knows?
GGuirao13
11/08/2024
01:40 AM
#26
No.
Donald J. Trump--proof against government intelligence.
SunWuKung420
11/08/2024
06:33 AM
#27
Muscles posted...
It has been 0 for a few years lol
I highly doubt that somebody looking for a life partner is interested in somebody with zero expectations.
"I don't question our existence, I just question our modern needs" Pearl Jam - Garden
My theme song - https://youtu.be/-PXIbVNfj3s
Muscles
11/08/2024
01:34 PM
#28
SunWuKung420 posted...
I highly doubt that somebody looking for a life partner is interested in somebody with zero expectations.
"Expectations are the greatest impediment to living. In anticipation for tomorrow, we lose today." - Seneca
Muscles
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SunWuKung420
11/08/2024
04:45 PM
#29
Muscles posted...
"Expectations are the greatest impediment to living. In anticipation for tomorrow, we lose today." - Seneca
Most stoics make terrible romantic partners.
"I don't question our existence, I just question our modern needs" Pearl Jam - Garden
My theme song - https://youtu.be/-PXIbVNfj3s
Muscles
11/08/2024
08:02 PM
#30
SunWuKung420 posted...
Most stoics make terrible romantic partners.
Even if that's true I'm not sure how expectations are the reason, also I'm not even sure what expectations should be had when looking for a partner
Muscles
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Salrite
11/08/2024
09:30 PM
#31
Not a decision up to me as I cannot reproduce through mitosis
TheGuiltySpark
11/09/2024
12:24 AM
#32
No. I knew early on (16-17 years of age) that I didn't want kids.
People kept telling me I'd change my mind.
20 years later, and I haven't second guessed that decision for a second.

I've also known who I am since about that age as well - someone who is greedy and possessive of their time and energy and I don't want to run anyone else's life but my own. I don't want that responsibility, and I don't want the risk of my kid turning out to be a disappointment.
Arguro
11/09/2024
07:59 AM
#33
I had a vasectomy nine years ago.
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man101
11/09/2024
09:58 AM
#34
Got one. Was planning on having at least one more but we'll see now where the world goes in the next few years. If there's a national abortion ban that pretty much rules out even trying because we've had a miscarriage before and that becomes a potential major health threat without proper treatment available.
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