Man, this topic is making me feel old.
I used to have a group of friends who were furries. This was probably around 2009-2010, when I was in college. I did not know what a furry was at the time, and was probably at roughly a similar level of ignorance as the TC.
Anyway, my recollection of this group of furries, in particular, is that they were basically just like cosplayers, only for some reason they gravitated heavily towards anthropomorphic animal type characters. They would all go to anime / comic conventions and cosplay, though they wouldn't exclusively cosplay furry characters.
Most of them owned at least one expensive custom fursuit that they paid a lot of money to have custom made for them. Those that didn't have one, either had just a head and paws, or were saving up in order to pay a fursuit creator to build them one.
I was into cosplay at the time, but I remember thinking that the dumbest part of the whole thing was paying so much money for a custom fursuit. Why would you drop over $1,000 to have a suit made of some random character that you just made up? Again, we were in college, and this was like 15 years ago. $1,000 was a shit ton of money to me at the time.
Only 1-2 of them were into the sexual side of the of the fandom. Interestingly enough, all of the other furries in the group thought that those people were very weird for treating fursuiting as a sexual endeavor. To them, I guess it really was just self expression / art.
I actually went out fursuiting with them a couple of times. I obviously didn't own my own fursuit, but we found an old gorilla costume in someone's attic that I guess was someone's dad's Halloween costume years earlier, so I wore that.
From what I remember, fursuiting basically consisted of the following:
- Going outside and walking around.
- High fiving children.
- Taking pictures with random people who were curious as to why there's a bunch of people dressed as animals in the park.
- Going into random businesses just to see people's reactions.
- Going bowling or mini golfing.
- Acting "in character" just to see people's reactions.
- Trying to see who could come up with the funniest sounding coded furry language and then chuckling about it (paw-lease = please, furr-iend = friend, purrfect = perfect, etc).
- Going over to someone's place afterwards to drink beer and playing board games.
Anyway, that's and just my experience with the fandom. I think I have an overall neutral, maybe slightly positive opinion of the fandom as a whole.
It's just people doing something that they find enjoyable / have an affinity for. It just so happens that this thing is something that most external observers find to be weird.