How much should you spend on an engagement ring?

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I actually don't remember what it cost but it wasn't super cheap. We need to leave behind this archaic bs though. Marriage is already archaic bullshit in the first place but being expected to buy, not one, but two or three expensive ass rings to prove something is fucking stupid. Isn't the origin story of marriage basically ownership of a woman anyway? Lol, we as a society need to leave this behind and just treat each other to a lavish vacation or a kitchen island or something. Something with actual long term value or making memories