Is it possible to use gayness as an insult yet be okay with gay people?

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CountessRolab posted...
Really though, I havent heard anyone use "gay" as an insult since I was in high school. It is a pretty childish thing to say, and if you talk like that in the workplace, you will eventually get hit with a sexual harassment suit.


I use it and i'm gay >.>

It works for certain things like when i'm talking about how flamboyant someone is in a derisive manner.

As for f** that doesn't really mean gay much these days. It's sort of dissociated from homosexuality. I don't remember the last time anyone used that refer to someone gay or really to say that something is gay in a negative sense.
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